Category Archives: North London Counsellor Blog

Laura reasoned:  “Well I hope I can change. I’m very hopeful for the therapy”  We are told to be hopeful. Hope is one of these words that it is difficult to argue with. To be hopeful, optimistic, is seen as … Continue reading →

A trainee therapist in a supervision group declared: ” my client Charli tells me how helpful her sessions are, and how safe she feels with me…..” Maybe But these kind of comments merit scrutiny. The context of the work with … Continue reading →

Few politicians subscribe to analysis (46:25) Psychoanalysis. Well perhaps not psychoanalysis: but might be sensible for politicians in power who can direct the economy &    take us into wars. A good idea to have a little self awareness? The … Continue reading →

In the first session Amal asked me what can I do for him: “I need some tools to keep my energy up. I want to keep my focus like I used to be able to when I was younger” I … Continue reading →

“I have never spoken to the guy: he means nothing to me. But whenever I see him I just want to stare at him: I don’t want to speak to him: I don’t want to know him. It’s so weird” … Continue reading →

It is easy to think that the world in 2026 isn’t good. A breaking down of an old order. Democracy. War. Populism. Looking at 2026 is like watching a world breaking down. Since the end of the two World Wars … Continue reading →

Celine started the session “I was very irritated yesterday at work. I spent a lot of time on a piece of work which my boss wanted really quickly. It needed a lot of work on the database which doesn’t work … Continue reading →

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We are coming into the festival of meet ups, parties, get togethers, filling people with joy and dread. Is it going to be boring or interesting? Perhaps a better question might be am I going to be boring or interesting? … Continue reading →

Usually we thnk of a lifespan in a linear way – a straight line birth to death. But another way of looking at it – is that it’s circular.    The first half of a life – childhood, then teens, … Continue reading →